Limit the number of active RPC connections

This MR adds a configurable limit to the number of active connections per RPC server spawned. In particular, this prevents the RPC server from opening too many file descriptors.

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Checklist

• Document the interface of any function added or modified (see the coding guidelines)
• Document any change to the user interface, including configuration parameters (see node configuration)
• Provide automatic testing (see the testing guide).
• For new features and bug fixes, add an item in the appropriate changelog (docs/protocols/alpha.rst for the protocol and the environment, CHANGES.rst at the root of the repository for everything else).
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